Archive for September, 2011

5 Essential Factors Women Lack That Sabotage Their Success

September 2nd, 2011

If women have such excellent leadership abilities, then why aren’t more women in leadership positions? This is because the unique challenges of women in leadership are not always easy to overcome. Here are the 5 essential factors that women need to succeed as leaders.

1. Self-Esteem

This is simple enough to understand. In a world where women are encouraged to follow feminine pursuits and treated as less capable than men, lack of self-esteem is almost an epidemic in women.

“Women systematically underestimate their own abilities,” says Facebook COO, Sheryl Sandberg in her TED Talk. “Men attribute their success to themselves while women attribute it to other factors.”

Even high-achieving women lack self-esteem in one or more areas of their lives. This belief about oneself causes us to self-sabotage at crucial points in our lives, resulting in lost opportunities, abandoned plans and underachievement.

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A Mid-Life Transformation – From Soccer Mom to Cowgirl!

September 1st, 2011

When I was a litigation attorney and the mother of three young boys, I’d often go to sleep with a vague sense of anxiety and wake with a knot in my stomach. Like so many professional women, my days consisted of running around in uncomfortable clothes screaming at other drivers while making carpooling arrangements for a soccer game on my cell phone. Just so you get the full picture, I lived in New Jersey.

Alas, in my profession there was also a lot of yelling – I was routinely subjected to tirades from clients who wanted “justice,” senior partners who wanted more money, and frustrated judges. Then I’d go home to an unhappy husband and three hungry kids.

By the age of 40, I couldn’t believe how my life had turned out.

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